BEST BREAK UP ADVICE EVER!

               Break ups… are probably one of the hardest things a person could get over because there’s so much emotional stress involved. Basically losing somebody. You don’t necessarily have to be dating that person either. Best friends break up. Families break up. You could break up with your dog. Damn even Destiny’s Child broke up. Though all of these sounded bad, one thing you’ll realize is: it ain’t even that crucial. Somebody breaking up with you gonna be the least of your problems in life. It’s hard. Girl, I know it’s gonna be difficult but bitch, YOU GON’ BE OKAY!

                You shouldn’t go to relationships just for fun. Video games are fun, breaking my heart is game over! What I struggle most with emotional break up is that I took the blame. All I said to myself, “What did I do wrong? It was all so good in the beginning, what did I do differently to mess it up?” And I try to figure out what was wrong with me and that’s why I would feel like shit and I think that’s what a lot of us do. We don’t believe in ourselves. We don’t understand how amazing we actually are because you know if you’ve a good boyfriend or girlfriend or not. And if in the duration of your relationship, you are faithful to your mate, YOU CAN’T HOLD YOURSELF RESPONSIBLE FOR AN ENDING.

                Sometimes we don’t even know our own self-worth and we wanna get back with the person who just broke up with us. We’re willing to change the way we look. We’re willing to beg! We’re willing to do anything just to get him to take you back. But honestly, if a person is relieved to have you out of their life, if breaking up with you makes them happy, their ASSHOLES!! And you shouldn’t feel sad about losing them! You might feel worthless to one person, but you are priceless to another. Don’t ever forget your value.

                If after the break up, you can’t stop thinking about them, if everywhere you go, there’s something that reminds you of him, ask yourself this: IS HE THINKING ABOUT YOU?! You spend all your day thinking about him, but do you really think you’ve even crossed his mind for a split-second since the break up?! They don’t care about you, why should you care about them?!

                If your boyfriend cheated on you, don’t ever view him as ex. View him as SCUM! Because that’s what he is. If someone cheats on you, you end the relationship right there, you tell him to fuck off and you move along with your life. No use crying over spilt scum.

                I feel like, after your break up, you have to better yourself in some way. The break up sets you back two steps, bitch you gotta take four steps forward. The last break up I was in, I had a really bad cry. Hell, I’ve been sad for a while.  So you know what I got? Abs! sheeeeet! Fuck a boyfriend. Having abs is like having six boyfriends on your stomach who won’t ever leave you.

                To the people who had never experienced a break up before, the first time is gonna hurt bad! But that’s ok ‘cause we’re humans and we have feelings. Just cry yourself out until you feel better. That’s what I did. But just like any other disasters that happens to you in life. You just have to pick up the pieces and reassemble.

                Don’t hold grudges on your exes. Be grateful that they shared those relationships with you. Thank them! But don’t literally go thank them because they still dumped you and they’re still assholes and you don’t want them to feel so good about themselves. Alright?